Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Turn Offs: Shy Guy

So I've talked a lot about the guy from the bar. I thought of giving him an alias, but this is probably the last time I will talk about him, so he's not worth it now, lol. If you've seen the other posts "Who's On First" and "Who's on First Update", you can learn what was going on with this cutie I saw at the bar a couple months ago.

Well, I gave him my card and didn't ask for his contact information. It took a while for him to contact me (you would know this if you read Who's on First Update, lol). So here's the run down of what happened when he finally contacted me.
After seeing each other in the bar on a Tuesday night, he sent me a text on Wednesday night. It was short, asking me how I was doing. When I replied back and tried to get a dialog going, he replied with these one word answers. After two hours and about six text messages that were getting no where, I stopped texting. He sends me a text around 11:30 pm saying that he was leaving the bar. I then wondered, if he was at the place where I met him and saw  him at yesterday, why didn't he ask me to join him?

Either way, he was very quiet and I don't care for guys that are very shy. I speak for a living and often attend events. I need someone that I can talk to, and not at. Someone that can spark a conversation with any type of crowd I may be in.

I haven't really spoken to the guy since (this was probably early October). In fact, he hasn't even come to the bar lately. I did see him at the mall, but I just smiled, waved and kept it moving. A shy guy is not really my type, so why waste time?

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