Petty Women

Sometimes I really hate dealing with women. And not to be racist, this is my opinion and I happen to be one, but black women are especially difficult to deal with. There is often this cattiness that I just don't understand. I don't have a lot of girl friends. I have a couple of close ones that I've known since junior high. And the relationship with one of them seems to be growing apart as we get older. The other one, is my role dog, even if she has kids and man now.

I've been hanging out with a lot more people that I went to college with and having some fun times, but these aren't usually black women. A lot of friends are also getting married and having kids and it becomes hard to have a fun friendship with someone that never has time for you any more. But, that's neither hear nor there. This post is about this chick I had the pleasure of not slapping the other day.

Old College Try

Have you ever looked back in your dating life and wondered why you and a person didn’t work out? You are drawing blanks trying to remember what happened...

During college, I dated this guy Mike. We only went out a few times, but of course ended up having sex. Me, not being completely over my ex, of course sabotaged what ever relationship we could have had. Of course he remembers the exchange differently than I do. I guess I ended up cussing him out (this happens frequently, so I don’t remember, lol).

We remained friends through everything. And when we graduated, he came to my graduation party where we partied throughout the night. The guy that I was dating was there, but I was having more fun with Mike. He was always cute, and had the deepest dimples when he smiled.

Warning, this post is long!

Hide Your Drawers

I know I’m not the only one. I’m sure there are plenty of people out there that have thing that they would not want their parents, children and maybe even significant other to see. But what if something happens to you? What would they say if they stumble upon your “goody drawer”?

So You Say He's Just a Friend

I said it several times. He's just a friend. Why is it so hard for some people to accept men and women being just friends. I often say its the lack of confidence that causes them not to trust their partner near other people. Well I have the confidence to not worry that my man would cheat.