Who's on First?

I've been checking this guy out for a few weeks, maybe a month now. He's been coming in my regular spot every Friday. Sometimes I see him on Saturday's or another day throughout the week. He's always alone and doesn't really start up any conversations with other people. And I've been waiting patiently for him to make this first move.

Wordless Wednesday: Online Dating

I'm going to start a new thing, every Wednesday I'll post a picture and with a sentence or two sentence comment. Let me know what you think on the subject, I'd love to hear from you.

Where do you find love?

If you've seen the new online dating commercials, they state that one in five relationships start online. What's your opinion on meeting someone online and what's been your experiences?

I'll follow this up with a post that I wrote last year about online dating.

Women and Hysteria

Fact: ’hysteria’, a condition once diagnosed liberally in women in the 19th century, was treated by genital massage.

And thus the invention of the vibrator. Thank you hysteria!

Hide Your Drawers

I know I’m not the only one. I’m sure there are plenty of people out there that have thing that they would not want their parents, children and maybe even significant other to see. But what if something happens to you? What would they say if they stumble upon your “goody drawer”?

Cute When Drunk

So I'm writing this while I'm at the bar and ...

I hate when I’m at the bar and all of a sudden, all the guys in the place start looking hot. This usually takes quite a few drinks, but soon all you start to think about is taking a guy home. I call this “cute when drunk.” Most guys call it “beer goggles.” Sadly, one of my girls has this problem pretty bad. She’s gone home with one too many guys because she’s drunk.

I always ask myself a question before thinking about giving it up. Would I still do him if I wasn’t drunk? Most of the time the answer is no, and I go home alone once again. I won’t lie though, there have been a few that have made it home so I could get that itch scratched. But those are the mornings you wake up and say, “what (or who) did I do last night?”

They're Here, There and Everywhere

Why is it that you can go weeks without running into someone you dated, slept with or want to sleep with then they all seem to converge on the same place? And none of these guys have anything in common.

As I type this I'm looking at my former maintenance man, a guy I'm somewhat dating and the bartender that I want to just try for a night. Maintenance man is bringing back some really good memories of all the the things that the current guy can't or hasn't lived up to. And I've been looking at the bartender with a flirty grin since he started. So what's a girl to do?

Go home and hope to get satisfied with my five minute guy? Meet my old maintenance man who doesn't have a problem putting in five hours? Or maybe try something new.

I think I'm going to be a good girl and go home alone again. This post may make me sound a little promiscuous, but most single women in their 30s have these same men in their lives so be proud of getting yours in.

So You Say He's Just a Friend

I said it several times. He's just a friend. Why is it so hard for some people to accept men and women being just friends. I often say its the lack of confidence that causes them not to trust their partner near other people. Well I have the confidence to not worry that my man would cheat.

Single Confidence or Confidently Single

I happened by this blog post today and author Clare wonders if confidence is a curse for women. I have often wondered that myself. Even a few good male friends of mine have often said that my confidence scares some guys away. All I ever wonder is why?

My confidence brings a lot to the table. I'm not a cocky person, but I have enough confidence in myself that I'm not running around checking a guys phone or need to be under him all the time. I know what I want, I communicate clearly and don't have time for a bunch of bull shit.

Why I Date

There have been a few times that I have given up on dating. I just don't find the guys that hold my interest or they may not be on my level. Several times I thought about swinging the other way, but honestly I like men way too much to be with a female. Plus, I don't think I could share the bathroom with another woman.

A lot of my friends that have moved away from Detroit, says its the city. I won't be able to find a good man until I get out of Detroit. I believed this for quite a while, but then I looked around and saw several friends from work and college that had successful marriages with people from the area. So then I wondered, is it me?

Starting in the Middle

It’s taken me awhile to get here, but I’m happy with my life right now. I’m 30 years old, single, have a good job and have a great place to live. I could use a new car, but I’d rather spend money on drinking and taking vacations rather than paying a car note and high insurance. I live just a couple miles away from Detroit and getting downtown only takes about 10 minutes. I find Detroit an interesting place to be, especially when it comes to the dating scene.