Single Confidence or Confidently Single

I happened by this blog post today and author Clare wonders if confidence is a curse for women. I have often wondered that myself. Even a few good male friends of mine have often said that my confidence scares some guys away. All I ever wonder is why?

My confidence brings a lot to the table. I'm not a cocky person, but I have enough confidence in myself that I'm not running around checking a guys phone or need to be under him all the time. I know what I want, I communicate clearly and don't have time for a bunch of bull shit.

I guess this attitude scares guys away. Why do men say they don't want someone under them, but then get mad if you have plans when they want to do something. I'm not afraid to be a lady either, I know how to make a man feel like a man. But don't expect me to wash dishes just because I'm a woman.

I know that I will find a guy that loves me and my confidence. I know several strong, confident women that have good men by their sides. So men, if you're looking for a woman with confidence. at what point does it become unattractive over confidence. And  how many women have been dumped because they were too strong or confident for a man? Does anyone know where the fine line is at?