Thursday, August 11, 2011

Why I Date

There have been a few times that I have given up on dating. I just don't find the guys that hold my interest or they may not be on my level. Several times I thought about swinging the other way, but honestly I like men way too much to be with a female. Plus, I don't think I could share the bathroom with another woman.

A lot of my friends that have moved away from Detroit, says its the city. I won't be able to find a good man until I get out of Detroit. I believed this for quite a while, but then I looked around and saw several friends from work and college that had successful marriages with people from the area. So then I wondered, is it me?


I decided to focus on myself for a little while. Plus you always hear -
You'll find love when you stop looking for it.

I'm still waiting. I gave up on purposely finding that person that would make me happy, I will have fun and see what happens from there.

So I'm dating to have fun, find that special someone and sometimes just to give me something to do. I know I'm not the only one out there that goes on dates because they're bored. Why are you still dating or why do you choose to stay single forever? Let me know.

1 comment:

  1. Why not employ new methods to finding your love instead of keeping it in a box? For me, I'm in a similar predicament...I know what I'm doing to find the love that I desire...my problem isn't that i can't find love...i can find it all over the place, but in the place i live, I'm not really open to it....so I'm leaving and will look hard for my preferences and the middle ground to not only being happy, but delivering it to a girl who really wants to serve a great love just as much as i do...

    T.

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