Married Guy, Year Two

I will continue on with my story about Married Guy. He was in my life for a very long time, and I should’ve let him go much earlier. But I, like probably many other women, got sucked deeper and deeper into the relationship.


In 2003, we hit our two year mark. By this time I knew he was married, but was willing to ignore it. He really had me thinking that I was the most special person in his life. We spent a lot of time together and he was even there to help me move when I moved out of my apartment of four years.

We spent a lot of time together, and he even took me on vacations. Once to meet his brother that lived in Canada. At the time I thought I was special because I was meeting some of his family and knew all of his friends. Really, they all helped to protect him in his big lies.

I was so busy thinking that he really cared for me, that I never noticed that I was being played like a game of Madden. He was the master of creating plays and forming a defense. He knew what he could say that would not arouse questions by me or his wife. He was there for the events and times that I really needed him, and that made me just believe even more that he cared so much about me.

Year two was great for me. I was going new places and had a nice looking older guy that I could depend on and enjoyed being with. I now look back and feel so much remorse for what I was doing to his wife, but the question is, was I doing it or was he doing it? I didn’t seek out the relationship, although it was my choice to continue it once I found out. She also had to have some kind of inkling since he spent so much time away from her and the kids. But once again, who knows what lies he was telling her to keep her on the team as well.

More soon about the progression of our relationship, but this is how I began falling in love with a married guy. He was there for me, made me feel special and always had time for me. I know I’m not the only one that has fallen for a married guy, but I feel I should let other people know how it happens and how it ends up affecting you in the future.