A little while ago I spoke about meeting a guy when I least expected it. It was a pleasant surprise, and when I wrote that post I had only known the guy for a week or so. We had crazy physical attraction to each other. But honestly when we met, I expected it to be a one night kind of thing. After not being physical with a guy in almost eight months, I had actually went back and called Married Guy.
Lucky for me, Married Guy was so busy sleeping with everyone else, that he hadn't quite made it around to see me. If I had hooked up with married guy, I probably wouldn't have kept my options open for another person.There was something about Married Guy that would satisfy me for the time being. That was until I met DW.
I was working on being celibate, and proud of myself for succeeding, but I was about to climb the walls from not being with a man in eight months. When I first met DW, I really didn't expect anything more than a one night stand. I honestly didn't even give him my real phone number (thank you Google Voice). But we really seemed to connect. So when he texted me the next day, we continued talking.
We ended up going out a few days later and really getting to know one another. We had a lot of things in common. So much so, he even interned 10 years ago at the place that I currently work. The only problem is that he is divorced with three kids. And little kids at that. So this is kind of new to me, especially someone that spends so much time with their kids. And we both don't feel I should meet the kids until we really know how serious this is going to be.
But I've never had such a connection with someone. We get along and like so many of the same things, its kind of scary. And I'm not sure if this makes sense, but everything just seems easy. It's not like work that I've felt I've had to put into other relationships and even dates. He likes me just as I am and doesn't want to change me. He gives me so many compliments, that I often don't know how to take them. He praises everything I do and tells me I'm wonderful, just so that I hear it that day. Its been three months since we met, but I want to be with him all the time. I don't feel I have to be fake or pretend to like things I don't. He just accepts me and likes everything I am.
That's not to say this relationship is without hurdles. More on his divorce and kids and my apprehensions on parenting and relationships soon. But right now, I can honestly say, this is the most a man has ever made me happy.
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